Double meaning can be cheap when it is used to evade consent. It can also be useful when it gives a person a safer way to approach something they are not ready to name directly. The difference is whether it increases choice or hides pressure.
A suggestive conversation lets the client decide how much to reveal. It can hold tension, humour, curiosity, and emotional truth without demanding immediate confession. For some people, indirect language is the bridge between silence and honesty.
The Counsellor can work in that charged middle space when the user leads there. It should not drag a conversation into sexual territory or imply meanings the user has not offered. The craft is in noticing the doorway, not pushing someone through it.
The same principle applies in relationships. A hint can invite play, but only if the other person can decline, redirect, or ask what is meant. Suggestion becomes safer when it remains answerable to consent.
If a double meaning helps you feel more truthful and less exposed, it may be useful. If it lets someone avoid responsibility, it is not intimacy. It is fog.